Tolerance...

Maybe we can learn something from this...

Question...

I have been thinking about this for some time now, and when people tell me think about the kids, or this is about the kids…well no it’s not…I mean I am fighting till the end for my babies…but in retrospect and really sitting down looking at the bigger picture…what is going on now is not helping the kids…it is not benefiting them.  In fact the kids are the ones who are suffering more.  So I ask you whose fault is it?  Mine...you know who’s?  If looking after what’s in the best interest for the children is the priority…then why are they the ones getting hurt?...why are they being used…is that not hypocrisy?  I honestly think it’s all the big words and slang and terminology that plays the trick on all of us who go through something likes this to blind side us into not seeing things for what they truly are.  Think about it…take a normal man or woman going through divorce…it’s about them and between them…the kids should be focused on right away because children are more easily influenced in a time of crisis, and because of that can and could lead to psychological problems for them down the road.  Kids don’t understand what goes on even if you tell them or try to help them understand, not like adults were we separate or divorce we know why and what the score is.  I guess it saddens me a lot because I see my kids every Saturday and each time I see them they look so unhappy…and it’s not because the don’t want to be with me, but you can see it in their eyes.  I look at their pictures from a year ago till last Saturday and you can so see the dramatic and drastic change in them…so I ask you this as well…if family life was so horrible and violent and unstable…then why when you look at pictures or movies they are happy and look like they have no care in the world?  Then you look at recent pictures and movies and well...night and day is all I can say.  God I miss my babies so much.  Well that’s all for now, just needed to let that out.