The week that was...

So it's been a rollercoaster week..the funeral service was nice..I don't know how a word like "nice" can be used for a funeral but they showed pics of granddad and family and had some of him with the kids when they were babies. I actually teared up seeing those. I think it hurt more because Kiara missed out on 2 years with her great grandfather and missed his funeral...

On a lighter note..I was given granddad's car. It was the break I needed and I'm anxious to drive...opportunities, freedom..new life? All I know is I'm pushing hard..as much as I have my days, but I'm not gonna stop until I'm happy.

Now on a f*cked up note...The girl I started talking to I had to walk away from because the day of the funeral (but after) she would not stop txting me, even after I told her multiple times I needed to have a night to myself because the funeral itself was hard..and what's hard is I can still hear his voice..he was fine at the end of June now he's gone...like wtf, and he was healthy. Anyway I spent nearly two hours trying to explain..and then yesterday she sends me a long txt trying to make me feel guilty...like wtf. So yeah I don't need that in my life. And it wasn't just that, she was lacking certain things I need in a relationship..and she was rather all about her-ish?

Anyway that's pretty much it...I have to go review the ivp presentation for tomorrow..as always I'm gonna kill it.


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Yeah right...

Woke up today in a decent mood...but I'm starting to believe now it's really not my energy that's pushing or attracting people. I genuinely think now I'm not liked. I even smiled at someone today asking how there day was and they looked at me and walked right by without saying a word. I feel like a joke... Maybe it's the environment itself..maybe this place is just toxic. All I know is I need change and soon. I can promise one thing..the day isn't over and the other shoe is waiting to drop. I'm never wrong.....

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End of an era...

Granddad passed away on Monday... I've tried to watch how it affects me...when I found out I was kinda numb. Took the day off on Tuesday to let things sink in...slept most of it and had a hard time going into work. I notice that I pullback and withdraw when I lose someone. Today I just did what I had to do and came home. But I need to know when coincidence stops and reality begins. I'm saying this because life always ends up giving me just enough to push through. Since Friday a lot has been going on...including someone you met. Sad part is it probably won't go anywhere...although it's going very well, we haven't met in person. And I'm sure that's where things will kinda stop. So part of me is undecided how to deal with this. Part of me wants to back away and let things go...maybe in my next convo with her try and find something that's a make or break for her. That way no one gets hurt, especially her. She's pretty chill and I can learn a lot from her. She's very diff from what I'm used to, relight down to morals and culture. September is definitely going to be a fucking roller coaster.. Still though...losing my grandfather is a huge blow. I still have a hard time believing I'll never hear his voice anymore or see him. It also kills me that his great grand daughter missed out on the last years. It's something she'll never be able to get back... Anyway that's sorta what the last 4 days have been like...I can only imagine the next 4....fml

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I wish....

I wish I could feel like this all the time without the drinking... I'm on such a high, and I know tomorrow will be the crash, or at the very least burrowed back in my shell...

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To the end..

No matter, what you DO NOT give in or give up...

This is the first time in years I'm loaded...yes I caved. I'm not upset about it...although it's liquid courage, it's helping. I just need to find my footing...I'm so close. Her lies aren't going to win...she used her last card of lies and now she has nothing. I can do what most would do and bury her...but that would be wrong. I need to focus on the footing...once I get it, everything falls into place. Btw...a lot has changed since the last post...for the worse, but that's a given. I may be fragile in certain ways, but in other ways solid a/f. Stay focused and move forward....

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